The Big Why
Among all the questions I am asked when I disclose I'm poly, the one that I'm perhaps least prepared for is the Why. One syllable that opens a whole tanker of...
Midlife Poly
Muddling past monogamy
Romantic Churn
Credit where it's due, I think my ChatGPT sometimes deserves to have its wisdom shared (very slightly) more widely. So here's a swing at that: Me: At my most...
Integrity is the Kink: Seeing Polyamory Beyond Sex
One of the enduring ironies about how monogamous culture views polyamory is the way it zeroes in on sex. The assumption runs: these people must have insatiable...
Intimate Friendships
This is not quite a book review, just a passing note and bloggy check-in. I came across the book, Intimate Friendships by James Ramey, via the Ethical Slut...
Blocking time and relationship zero
My relationship setup means I often spend significant blocks of time with partners – typically days if not weeks. This raises the question of an appropriate...
A Path to Poly
I can confidently say after 15 years of faithful monogamy I'd properly tried it but I guess we were one of the relationship casualties of Covid. I wish I could...